Forget The Excuses – Why You Deserve A Boudoir Experience
When we are unsure or afraid or nervous we make excuses not to do something that is good for us. I know life gets busy and you don’t have a lot of time in your day for extras. Maybe you are always looking after someone else, and you just don’t think you can make time for you! Are you putting everyone else ahead of yourself? We also hear excuses such as ” I need to lose 10lbs first” or ” I just don’t have the money for this right now” I really wanted to write this post to show you, you are worthy of the day of pampering and this amazing experience. You should never be to busy for self love.
” I’m just to busy”
If you aren’t able to take care of yourself and treat yourself from time to time, you will eventually feel empty and not have an ounce of anything left to give. It’s like a car, you have to fill it up with gas in order for it to keep going. You need to fill up your tank once in a while. I speak from experience. I am so busy looking after everyone all the time, I do take time out for myself and I really notice the difference. I always come back stronger and a better me.
We all need to slow down and just breath and take a time out. Taking a day off work for a “me” day is essential for your mental health.
At your boudoir experience, you will be able to slow down and spend time just for yourself. Imagine all the energy you will save daily not thinking about how you have to measure up to how someone else looks. You will be able to stop thinking about what other people think about the way you look. Plus you will get to see exactly how beautiful and wonderful you really are.
Taking the time for yourself and getting all glammed up, will be a real treat!!
“I don’t look like the women on your site, I don’t fit the ideal figure type”
Let’s talk about what “ideal” is for a second. Ideal is, just the way you are! Every woman and body is so different and so uniquely beautiful. Even the models that you see on the front of magazine covers don’t look like that. They are all photo shopped. So, there is no ideal size, and no idea shape.
The women on my site are real woman, not models at all! If you look at my before and after before and after page, you can see that you can look like the woman on my site.
I am all for being healthy and being physically active, we should all look after ourselves. True self love is loving yourself even if you aren’t at your goal weight, or aren’t where you want to be in life. It’s loving yourself faults and flaws and all, no matter what. It’s good to set goals for yourself, just love who you are right now.
” I just don’t feel sexy anymore, a boudoir photo shoot just won’t be for me”
Nothing could be further from the truth. A boudoir experience is for every woman. Feeling you aren’t sexy enough, is the exact reason you should book one. Having your own boudoir experience will help you reconnect with your inner self and help you to feel sexy again. Dressing up sexy and then seeing yourself that way, will bring out what has been hiding or lost.
Sometimes when life gets busy we lose touch with our feminine and sexy side. This happens a lot and it’s totally normal. Booking your boudoir experience, will help ignite that spark inside you.
Remember that what you wear to your session is going to be all about you! About your vibe. You only wear and bring clothing that you feel comfortable and sexy in. If you aren’t sure of what to wear, not to worry. We can set up a call and I will help you with that.
” A boudoir experience is an investment, I really don’t have that money right now”
Yes, a boudoir experience is an investment. It is also an investment in yourself and your well being and confidence. We do offer payment plans and layaway plans also. We require a retainer fee to secure your shoot date, then we can talk about payment plans and what works for your budget. If you have any questions about our payment plans or lay away plans or if you are ready to book your boudoir experience please send us an email firstname.lastname@example.org or text us 647-222-6427